What are you doing?

David just called. I know he doesn't mean anything by it when he asks me what I'm doing, but it always makes me feel guilty if I'm not doing something. Sometimes I even feel guilty when I am doing something because I don't feel like I'm doing enough. This would be a good topic to discuss with Marianne. Where are these expectations coming from? I can't blame everything on my mom. I've been with David for 20 years now and I still feel that way with him. Does he expect something of me that I'm not doing? Or is it that I expect something more of myself. Something I need to look at.